Hey ) the urge to fuck comes as naturally to humans (or any other complex biological species) as does the urge to eat, sleep, and shit. So before anything else know this at the age of twenty your body is already 78 years late at creating its fi. Today, im going to talk about sex (and more particularly why men lose interest and exactly what to do about it. If the sex and romance in your relationship has all the passion of a wet paper bag, stop whatever youre doing and go watch this video right now. It teaches you how to use tiny little text messages to make that one special man or woman crawl over broken.). Regular sex helps you feel emotionally close to your partner, which opens the door to better communication. Couples who have sex more often tend to say theyre happier than those who get less of it. there may be other reasons why women stop wanting sex, but heres the top 10 (including some you havent thought about.). there is nothing wrong with a healthy man wanting sex all the time - its called testosterone. You cant turn it off, thats the way you are made, its normal. I think i understand what you mean though, how do you turn it off in your present situation. First things first not having sex doesnt mean youre broken. It can be a choice, a change of life, or loss of interest, and thats perfectly fine. To get a man, and then once married find every excuse in the book to stop doing this. If what is going on now is the same as before sexually tell him to get over it, but if you are the one severely limiting the sex life from how it was before, then you are in the wrong, sorry. Women may have less sex as they age, but its not necessarily because theyve lost interest in getting it on, according to a study published recently in the journal menopause. 30 responses to sexual refusal he stopped asking but he didnt stop wanting. It was less of an emotional roller coaster to just not put myself through wanting sex, and hoping, and then not getting it than to just forget about it and try not to think about it.