It is important not to confuse average estimates of how often couples have sex with what is normal for you and your relationship. Every individual and couple is different, and sexual desire is bound to fluctuate naturally over time. The important thing is that both of you are satisfied with the amount and quality of the sex that you have. a recent study showed that nearly one-third of women aged 18 to 59 suffer from a lost interest in sex, and its not all in their heads. Her husband is not interested in sex, and the sexual resentment has seriously threatened their marriage. Intimacy and affection are key components to a happy marriage. Below i share some of my tips to solve their marriage sex problems and save their marriage from divorce. Almost all marriages go through periods when the man has a lower sex drive than his wife. Sex therapists explain why your husband doesnt want sexfrom stress to medical conditions to relationship changes. Plus, what you can do to push past the sexual issues and get your husband in. First, because sex is such a sensitive topic for most people, it will helpat least initiallyto focus on the broader dynamic between you and your husband. If youre not having the frequent, spontaneous, joyful, sex that you once enjoyed, then theres a good chance that somethings missing in your emotional connection with your partner. Sex the 4 hidden reasons some men dont want sex psychological insights into the causes of low male libido. Your sex life may fluctuate, but there is a problem if your husband is not interested in sex with you at all. If the kisses have dwindled, there are no hugs, and there is minimal touching, this is a sign of a miserable husband.