wash with hot water (comfortably hot but not scalding) and an unscented soap. The vagina actually stays quite clean on its own with minimal help from outside cleansers. Like other parts of the body, the vagina has a ph level that needs to be maintained within a certain range - 3. 5, to be specific - in order to prevent the growth of unhealthy bacteria and facilitate the growth of good. When people mention vaginal appearance (lopsided or otherwise), theyre usually talking about the labia, or vaginal lips. Labia come in different shapes, sizes, and colors, and all of them are. Some of a womans sexual organs are inside the body, such as the womb, ovaries and vagina, and some are outside. This includes the opening of the vagina, the inner and outer lips (labia) and the clitoris, which is located at the top of the vagina. then, move to your perineum, which is the area between your vagina and anus, and end with your anus so you dont spread germs from your anal area into your vagina. While keeping a cleansing routine is key to vaginal health, avoid douches, scented wipes, and deodorant sprays, which can wash away good bacteria and lead to infections. Factors like sufficient lubrication and arousal and a good relationship with a partner have a much greater impact on sexual enjoyment for women. So, keep in mind that a little discomfort might just be something that works itself out as you figure out what feels good and what doesnt.