Heres where we need a supercut of men saying, im gonna cum! Too bad it doesnt exist. Brian i feel like saying im gonna cum also shows vulnerability. Tracy i do note that when guys dont say it, i end up wondering when its ever going to happen. Several things happen, one of which is a lot of men, is the scrotum draws up close to the body. Its not really about age, but about where you are in puberty. A boy will have his first ejaculation very, very close to twelve months after the start of puberty. Im seeing this guy and we dont see each other often, but we talk and text and hes so excited that the next time we see each other ill let him do this. do you always use the same hand to masturbate? Most guys do. If youre among them, start with the simple tip of switching hands. It can feel strange at first, the rhythm might be offits almost like sex with someone new. Enjoy the newness, and see if a new hand can teach an old hand new tricks. Many men think its important for them to protect and provide for those they love. Let your husband know that you believe in his talents and skills and are supportive of him. The men who cant cum the reasons why are far more complicated than death grip the trope of the man who shoots his shot then rolls over to sleep is so ingrained in our collective psyche that it may be hard to imagine that there are guys for whom having an orgasm with a. what do men really want? What men want in women and from women is getting more complex by the minute. im wondering what other men find appealing about seeing men cum. If you thought a penis was solely meant for sex and urination, youve got it all wrong. Men occasionally do really strange stuff with their genitals.